In the end, all that matters is the way we treat ourselves and those into whose life we pass. We obtain things to make our lives easier and more comfortable, to open to knowledge and to be aware of beauty. Yet it is the love that matters.
We love to allow the generosity of heart to fill us and move through us to the other and on to a larger, continuous circle. In turn, we vibrate with the love that radiates back from this circle that we ourselves have lit with the Light of Love.
Circles vibrate and attract within their vibrating level, which in turn intermingles with others who are in themselves a circle of vibration. This interchange strengthens each vibratory circle, thus reverberating and echoing along the arches until reaching the center of the circle where the human resides.
The stronger the original signal, the stronger the vibration of the circle’s signal. The human controls the signal through genuine emotion. If the life force is weak through each emotion of the heart, the signal will be weak and not attract other circles of emotion. That person will eventually tire of feeding itself and burn out. A life force cannot feed itself in a sustained way without energy from another source.
There are two sources of feeding yourself, and both are needed at this stage of evolution. The first of course is the Prime Source, or what you may call God. But this source is often misunderstood. It is not a being; it is the Energy of all that is. The other source is the Life Force, which is the energy of each being. It’s how you feed one another as well as yourselves.
This Life Force runs through all that is and all that is, is constantly feeding you as you are feeding all. The strongest force in the form of influencing another is the force from the same species. Thus, a tree has a stronger influence on a tree than does a rabbit on a tree. This can also be broken into subspecies and still be true, so it can be said that an oak has a greater influence on an oak than on a maple or pine.
Where humans are concerned, your influence on one another is greater than is the oak’s influence on you. This is not to say that the oak or rabbit or stone or dog does not influence you. They certainly do just as you influence them. It is to say, however, the greatest influence on you comes from other humans.
This said, you can then understand why your emotions play such a pivotal role in attraction of the influences you want around you. At the simplest level, like attracts like. The explanation of this, we have already given, but the question is always raised that if this is so, why is there suffering for those whose Life Force is primarily Love?
We must look at the bigger picture. Each human is at the center of each circle. The vibration of the circle changes and is strengthened by the emotion and its intensity. The greater love, the higher the vibratory frequency, and the lighter and brighter the circle. Here, recognize that like attracts like, so the frequencies of vibration call out and pull into themselves their own. If a person is emitting a genuine emotion of compassion, the vibratory frequency of compassion will seek out others who are at the same time emitting this same frequency.
The same is true of anger, although that is a denser emotion and travels at a slower pace. The danger of the slower, heavier emotions is that they do not move away easily but tend to get stuck in the circles of attraction.
The lighter frequencies do not get stuck as they move at a lighter and greater pace, which allows them to enlarge at a much faster rate. Thus, joy reaches out from its center to re-energize itself easier and faster than does a denser, genuine emotion.
If we have been caught in a denser emotion, we suffer. This must be looked at along the entire soul path, not just one life, although it is only one life that humans experience at a time. If — and once — able to comprehend their Prime Source and Life Force, they will no longer suffer, because they will give up ownership and allow life to flow for the experience.
Suffering comes through ownership of something and its loss. Another way of expressing this is to say your suffering as humans is in direct proportion to your attachments and expectation of that which youbelieve should be.
For example, you believe your body should be strong and healthy. This is your expectation. You are attached to your body’s strength and health. Loss of this causes suffering.
When you are able to see the reward in the suffering, you are able to exchange pain for love, and the suffering ceases.
The same is true when someone you say you love moves to a different plane of existence. I say someone you say you love because love does not bind or judge, which we do both with our expectations and attachments. Loving fully does not mean holding onto or binding the other with your expectations. Loving fully means just that-loving. In loving fully, there is no suffering. There is only loving. Pain comes from missing the other, not from insisting they must still be with you. Loving yourself, as well as the other, allows you to let go and let the missing be one of memories of pleasure and thankfulness for time together. This is exchanging pain for love.
As each emotion is looked at, it is possible to make the consciousness to live in the circle of love. This we suggest you do.