Piper Get a Little Jealous

Mom’s giving Lily all the attention. Well, maybe not all. We are still playing ball and she’s still feeding me and petting me and giving me treats and talking to me. But, Lily’s getting more attention. Maybe that’s ‘cause Lily’s sick.

It’s hard having a sick sister. Some days Lily acts normal. Some days all she’ll do is curl up and sleep. Cats do that a lot anyway. But this is different.

Some days Lily won’t eat. On the days she does eat, Mom feeds her more. All day long. Geez! I wish Mom fed me all day like that. I have to just watch Lily getting all that food.

And I’m not allowed to bother her. Geez! All I want to do is sniff her. You know where. Lily doesn’t like that. But what about when Lily stands on the table and looks down at me in my bed and stares and stares at me. That’s when Mom watches me really, really close. “Piper, ignore her,” Mom says. Geez Mom!

Guess being sick isn’t any fun. But it’s not any fun having a sick sister either. I mean it’s not only that she gets more attention. It’s that…it’s that. Well, it’s that I’m sad that Lily’s sick. I don’t want her to be sick. It’s not fair. She shouldn’t be sick. It’s no fun being sick.

I wish she’d get well.

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Accepting Change and the Yin-Yang

Change is difficult for many of us to accept. Too often change means loss and in our Western culture we’d rather only experience that which makes us happy. We want the up without the down.

The seemingly opposites of life are actually complementary to one another. There is no up without the down, no depth of shadow on a summer lawn without sunlight, no knowledge of happiness without knowing its opposite.

There is a wonderful story from the mythology of China that teaches us about both sides of life–the yin-yang. It is the story of Chang’e,who became Goddess of the Moon and her husband Houyi the Archer and Sun God. According to legend, Chang’e and her husband Houyi were immortals who lived in heaven and enjoyed all the privileges of that life. One day the ten sons of the Jade Emperor transformed into ten suns. Their intensity began to scorch Earth and her people.

Unsuccessful in stopping his sons, the Emperor summoned Houyi the archer, who used his skills to send an arrow to nine of the sons, but spared the tenth, so Earth would have warmth and light. Although the Emperor was pleased that Earth was no longer burning, he was not happy to lose nine of his sons. Instead of being rewarded for saving Earth, Houyi was punished. He and his wife Chang’e were banished from heaven and forced to live as mortals on Earth.

Chang’e, being the goddess that she was, did not accept this change gracefully.  When Houyi saw how miserable his wife was over the loss of her immortality, he being the hero that he was, left his home and began a quest for the fabled Pill of Immortality, so they could once again become immortal and live in heaven.

After a long and dangerous journey, Houyi finally came to the home of the Queen Mother of the West and Goddess of longevity and eternal bliss. As she gave him the Pill of Immortality, she cautioned him to give half the pill to Chang’e and for him to take half. “To take more than half is dangerous,” the great queen and goddess warned.

Houyi returned home from his adventure and stored the Pill of Immortality in a beautiful case. He showed the case to Chang’e but warned her to not open it while he was out attending to business.  Well, you can imagine how curious Chang’e became. Here was this beautiful case with something mysterious inside. She held the case in her hand as though she could discern what was inside just by holding it. Finally, she could stand it no longer, and opened the case only to find not a rare gem or pearl, but a simple pill.

She took the pill out to examine it, touched it to her tongue just to see what it tasted like, and just at that very moment Houyi opened the door. Chang’e panicked and accidentally swallowed the entire pill. Immediately she began to float upward . . . higher and higher and higher. Houyi took out his bow and arrow and started to shoot her down, but he could not bear to harm her, so he let her continue to float, and she floated all the way to the moon.

This is the way Chang’e came to represent the moon and Houyi the sun, the yin-yang, linked opposites that create the whole.

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Piper Has a Brother

I have a brother. Mom says he’s fairy-oral. That means he’s wild.

He has his own house and bed. It’s on the front porch. Mom made him a house before he was born. His mom came to my Mom for help. She was going to have baby kittens.

Mom called her Joey. When the babies came, Mom named them too. There was Magic and Andy. There was a third kitty, but she left pretty soon for the rainbow bridge. Guess she didn’t like it here.

They lived here before I did. I know about them because Mom tells me the story. She said Magic went away too. For a long time. Then she came back. But Andy was mean to her. So Mom made Magic a house on the back deck. That way Andy would leave her alone.

Magic stayed for a long time. But she went away one day and didn’t come back.

Joey left for the rainbow bridge before Magic. She was Daisy’s friend. So she had to go ahead of Daisy to help her.

Daisy is my angel. I see her all the time. Sometimes I see Joey with her. She’s all black. Magic is gray. I never see her. Just Joey. And Daisy of course.

And I see Andy. He’s the easiest to see. That’s ‘cause he lives on the front porch. And he goes for walks with us. We only get to walk part way down the lane when he’s with us. Mom says that’s because he’s not allowed to go to the road.

I can walk all the way to the road with Mom when Andy isn’t with us. I can even cross the road to the other side. That’s where the mailbox is. I have to wear my leash when we cross the road. Mom says that makes me safer.

Andy doesn’t have a leash. Maybe that’s why he’s not allowed down by the road.

Sometimes I like that he walks with us. Sometimes he’s just a pest and I don’t like him around. Guess that’s the way it is with brothers.

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You Are Beauty; You are Joy

Go visit Mother Earth today. Ask her to hold you as the loving mother she is. Let your hands touch her, then cup your hands to your heart.

Feel her filling you with her beauty, her love. Feel your body lighten as love moves through you.

Feel Mother Earth surrounding you, holding you, protecting you.

Feel your feet go deep into Mother Earth, grounding you.

Now look up and see Father Sky. Know he too is with you. Feel the breath of your heart grow and soar with joy.

Now go inside bringing with you the heart of Mother Earth’s beauty and the breath of Father Sky’s joy.

Look into a mirror and see the one looking back at you, the one filled with the beauty of Mother Earth and the joy of aliveness of Father Sky.

You are so much more than you think you are. Be the more that you are.

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When Heartbreak Hits

So many people are going through a rough time right now, good people who deserve all life’s goodness, but must deal with painful circumstances—the death of loved ones, serious illnesses, betrayal, financial problems, and a host of other trials life passes to us. How do we continue to go forward, to put one step in front of the other and meet the day? How do we deal with the demons that threaten us in the dark of the night?

Sometimes all we have is hope.

We hope that the next moment will bring us peace, if only for one breath.  And if we are truly blessed, that breath of peace becomes a second breath and a third until we dip beneath the grief and emotional turmoil and stress and find a resilience that allows us to lift our heads and, if only for a moment or two, ease our hearts.

It is in these times that we must reach out for it is in the reaching out that we begin healing. It is in the healing that we learn our pain that feels so much bigger and deeper than we are is bigger and deeper than we are. It is in the healing that we find the gift of our own strength and come to understand we are willing to traverse this mountain in the knowing that it is not only our life that we heal but it is the very pattern of the wound itself that we are binding up with our tears and struggle. It is in the healing that we come to understand that we are changing the pattern and creating a space for another to walk through and in doing so their pain is lessened.

It is in this way, we become the healers.

As I sit and watch the tree branches wave in the wind, they cast shadows over the earth as the leaves and sun play with one another. It is in the play between the shadow and the sun that I see the truth of life and its depth; one does not exist without the other, there is no shadow without the sun; there is no depth without the shadow. There is no sound of one hand clapping.

I am reminded of that today when I feel the pain of so many who are in the shadows while at the same time also feeling the joy of others who are in the sun. It is in my own heart where I embrace both somehow knowing that this too is healing, just to hold witness for the other as others have always held me.

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Piper Finds Joy

I’m bored. I mean bored. Mom is busy working and here I am just watching her. She’s so busy she hardly even notices me. What’s a doggy to do?

I’m tired of napping. Ho hum. Guess I’ll just lie here in my bed and wait for Mom. Maybe we’ll play ball later. Maybe I’ll get a treat. Guess I can dream. That’s all I can do right now. Ho hum.

Ho hum.

Oh wait. Look out there. Out the window. That leaf is waving at me. I better wave back. And look there’s a squirrel. He sees me too. He’s waving his tail at me. And the hummingbirds. So many are at the feeder. And they’re all waving at me. They love me.

This is so exciting. I could watch them all day. Why did I ever think I was bored. All I have to do was open my eyes and look. There’s so much to play with!  

I can watch the leaf and the squirrel and the hummingbirds all waving at me. And if I keep watching more leaves and squirrels and hummingbirds will come. And who knows what else will come to wave at me.

I’m so happy.

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July 4th Let Us Remember

As we come to July 4th, let us remember why we celebrate. We celebrate the passage of the Declaration of Independence by the Continental Congress on July 4th, 1776, so that—

  • We may attend events, walk in our neighborhoods, travel, shop, and be safe from all those with guns who think it’s their right to harm others.
  • We may choose what to do with our own bodies without government or anyone telling us what is right for us and our lives.
  • We do not have people yelling in our faces trying to get us to believe their religious beliefs.
  • We have a government of those elected by the people who work for the majority of the people and not just for the ultra-wealthy and corporations.
  • We may accept all lifestyles and stay out of our neighbors’ bedrooms and lives that do no harm to us.
  • We may read the books we decide to read and allow the parents—not government—to decide what their children can read.

As we come to July 4th, let us remember we have a far-from perfect country, and let us come together to make life better for all beings. We cannot change history; we can work to improve the future for those who have been harmed. Let us—

  • Come to know the needs of our indigenous communities and work to help meet those needs.
  • Recognize, and accept, that all humans regardless of the color of our skin, our religious beliefs or non-beliefs, whether woman or man, our sexual orientation practices, all human, deserve to be treated with kindness, then treat all with compassion, empathy, and love.
  • Respect and care for all life, all life, the animals, the planet and the space in which Earth and all life breathes.
  • Learn what the people of your community, and the people of the world, need and work to help meet those needs.

There is much left unsaid here; there are more issues to be named. But as we come together with our friends and families, as we go to our picnics and fireworks celebrations, let us remember what we are celebrating. Let us remember the dream of all of us is to live in freedom, the freedom to breathe free, to live as we choose and believe what we choose without harm to others. Yes, let us remember why we celebrate July 4th.

Let us remember.

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Turning Lemons into Lemonade

It makes me happy to see the preverbal glass half full rather than half empty; to make lemonade out of a lemon; and to turn an upside-down situation right-side up. I’m pretty optimistic, but sometimes it sure takes a lot of hard work to stay up when the world just keeps pulling you down.

With all the spring, and now summer, storms sweeping across my area of the world, I’ve been reminded of a storm several years ago now…and it’s aftermath. It was in 2012 when hurricane-like winds swept through. Here’s the story:

Friday, while watching out the 12-foot windows in my office, 80 mile-per-hour winds swept by taking with them uprooted trees, ripping off the roof of the pharmacy across the street, tearing away a portion of the tower on the courthouse, and blowing out windows one floor above me causing flooding in my neighbor’s office and overflowing hastily arranged trashcans that had been strategically placed to catch the downpour coming through the ceiling.

Smart phones are smart to have in a storm. Checking mine, I saw a line that traversed the whole State of Ohio and then some. My home was in the track of the storm. I live in a woods.  I knew there was damage, and I just wanted to get home. 

Prudence kept me in the office until the storm passed. The drive home showed me that was sensible. Trees and branches were down everywhere—on people’s homes, cars, across the streets.  My concern grew for my four-legged kids, my home, and the outbuilding where we hold workshops. I knew there was damage all around me, and yet I knew everything was okay. For the last year, I had experienced the phenomenon of witnessing storms pass north and south of me, almost in my yard, but my home stayed in an angel-alley of sun between dark, often ominous clouds. This time felt different. There was no alley of sunshine. This storm went right through my land.

Home. My 900-foot lane seemed awfully long. There was debris from the trees along the lane; one pine tree with two major branches missing, one flung into the corn field, the other on its side, sap oozing onto the grass as though the pine still had tears to shed and was asking the earth to nurture it. Not so bad, I thought, and then I turned into the bend under the tall trees at the edge of the woods.

Destruction in the side yard. A foot-wide upper branch from the saggy bark hickory had twisted and was turned upside down, collapsed against trunk. Leaves that this morning soared freely 60 feet above the earth now slumped against the ground, the upper part of the branch still tied to the trunk as though it knew where it belonged, and it didn’t want to let go.

My kids did not greet me from their fenced-in acre, now full of fallen debris from oak and maple trees. The garage door, behind which I wanted to find two healthy dogs, moved upward on its rungs about as quickly as a fast-food line at lunch time. Finally, Freddie ducked under the door and came running out; Lacey perked up from her princess pillow, and looked just fine, although scared. Next to check were the cats—Sophia, Lily, and Petey. They were waiting on the other side of the door and began purring and meowing and rubbing against my legs almost before I was inside.  

My gratitude for their wellbeing couldn’t have been stronger. The same is true for the protection of my home and workshop building, neither of which was damaged. The land, well it looked like what you’d expect when 80 mile per hour winds come through, something like tangled long hair after a troubled night’s sleep. There’s no accounting for the disarray. I was just grateful the rearrangement of the yard, compliments of the storm, wasn’t any worse. It was certainly an opportunity to make some lemonade.

In the back yard, feet away from the roof, a cottonwood lay sprawled across the west side of the once-flowering shade garden.  A couple of feet across at its base, the trunk still stood about 25 feet up where it had split gape-toothed and fallen. Once a grand tree that shaded the deck, the tree had been cut in half and then some. Cottonwood leaves now shivered against leaves of garden Hosta plants and wren houses buried beneath the tree’s branches. 

A few feet away was the jagged stump of a tulip poplar. Beside it, the once glorious tree, its trunk stretched out all the way to the meadow at the end of the yard, her branches and leaves spread across the grass like a lady’s skirt on a summer picnic before the symphony. In the woods, more trees were down, but they were not an immediate concern. These were—the cottonwood and tulip poplar in the back yard and the hickory in the side. Everything else was clean-up that I could handle with several hard days, but these trees required a chainsaw strength I don’t have.

The handyman brought his chainsaw and got much of the cottonwood cutup on Saturday. A friend’s ex-husband helped out when he came by with his new wife to borrow my generator for his ex-wife, whose electricity was out.  Some of the wood would go with him for my friend’s wood-burning furnace.  A neighbor came by with his big John Deere tractor to try to pull down what was remaining of the hickory and cottonwood trees. John Deere lost this one. That old hickory wouldn’t come down with a chain attached to a 4-wheel drive dual-wheeled truck either. The tractor’s wheels spun; the truck’s rear end lifted into the air, and the branch stayed put. It will take a man in a bucket with a chainsaw to get the hickory branch down and to bring down the rest of the cottonwood from where it’s holding on.

Once we get all the wood onto the ground and cut to size, an Amish craftsman will haul off the larger pieces to turn into furniture and pallets. The remainder of the logs will go for helping a friend stay warm in the cold months. The brush went into piles in the woods for small animals to build nests in.

Certainly, lemonade had been made from this lemon—the handyman had work; the friend has wood for the winter; the craftsman has wood to craft; no harm was done to my home, and I had a cleaned-up yard—at least for a little while.

Another storm blew through on Sunday whipping and winding itself around those tall trees, but except for a few small branches and leaf debris, they all stayed upright. I guess they decided I had enough lemonade for one weekend.

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Piper Explains the Rainbow Bridge

My sister’s sick. Really sick. Mom didn’t even have to tell me so. I could tell all by myself. She’s acting okay. But I know she’s sick. Even though she’s being as mischievous as ever.

We thought she was all well after her last trip to the kitty doctor. And she did get well. I helped her. But then she got sick again. Mom said this time it’s really serious.

I don’t want Lily to be sick. Mom said I did help heal Lily. But we don’t get to choose what that healing looks like. Mom said what Lily has can’t be cured. That it might take a long time, or it might be close to time for Lily to cross over the rainbow bridge.

Mom said we need to let Lily know how much we love her. I did. Mom asked me if I know what the rainbow bridge is. I nodded yes. Then she said we need to tell Lily that when she’s ready it’s okay to cross over the rainbow bridge. I told Lily it’s okay ‘cause Mom asked me to. But Lily already knew that.

All kitty cats and doggies know it’s okay. We all cross the rainbow bridge sometime. There are lots of other kitty cats and doggies to play with already on the other side of the rainbow bridge. And it doesn’t hurt to cross.

The hardest part is that our humans don’t understand. They think we’ve left them. That makes them sad. We haven’t left. We just went to play for a little bit. And to get a new baby body. That way we can come back to our humans again or to new humans who need our love and cuddles.

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Quan Yin and Compassion

“You wish to speak with me?” Quan Yin spoke and her voice sang like cool water flowing over smooth stones.

“Oh Goddess, Bodhisattva of Compassion, I wish to have more compassion and less judgment of others,” I said.

“Compassion comes from the understanding of suffering and nonjudgment comes from understanding. Neither is a gift I can give to you. These are gifts you give to yourself,” Quan Yin said, her voice a melody of harmonious vibrations of a thousand hands passing over a thousand harp strings.

“These are gifts of wisdom,” I heard her say. Then she seemed to float away, and I used my voice to pull her back to me.

“It is said you still walk among the people to alleviate suffering, that you will stay until the last cry of suffering is changed to one of joy.”

She spoke to me without words, and I felt her approval of what I had said, so I continued. “Your story is so beautiful, so inspiring. You were the third daughter of a wealthy ruler who had already married his two older daughters to wealthy, but cruel men. You pleaded with your father to not force you to marry, instead to allow you to serve the temple dwellers.”

“It was a daughter’s duty to obey her father,” Qua Yin spoke, and for the briefest of moments I saw the young Chinese girl during the Chou dynasty.

“Your father finally relented, but he went to the temple dwellers and told them to work you extra hard, a punishment for your disobedience.”

Quan Yin’s eyes sparked in recognition. She nodded her head and smiled slightly. “Yes, I have heard this story,” she said.

“It is said you worked very hard and with a pure heart, doing much more than was asked of you. Every day when you went to fetch water for the temple, your kindness spread to the animals of the forest, and soon word of your good deeds and kind heart spread throughout the forest. The animals gathered together and decided to help you with your chores. Birds filled the table bowls with ripened berries, cock brought the hens’ eggs, horse brought roots from the earth, tiger gathered rice on his coat to bring, and dragon lit the fire. Word of this miracle swept to the nearby village, making the villagers happy until word spread to your father.

“He went to the temple dwellers. Such a rage he was in. ‘She has disobeyed me,’ he said. ‘She has disobeyed me and made a fool of me. All the villagers are laughing at me. She must be punished.’ The temple dwellers tried their best, but your father would not calm down. Finally in his rage, he said, ‘Kill her. Kill her.’

“No one in the temple wanted to obey, but still you were slain. As you ascended to the heavens, you saw nirvana before you and knew you could spend all eternity in bliss. You were about to step into your ecstasy when you heard a cry of suffering from Earth.”

“I vowed to return to Earth and walk among the people until there were no more cries of suffering, but only joy,” Quan Yin said.

“You were given the status of Goddess because of your pure heart and compassion.”

“Yes, I remember this story, but Dear One it is a story made up long ago in the villages to comfort those in need.”

“Then you did not live in China long ago?”

“This is not the question. It is of no significance. Quan Yin is the Bodhisattva of Compassion. Whether or not she lived as a girl is of less importance than that her spirit lives in the hearts of all who show compassion.”

“It is her spirit, her energy that walks the earth,” I said awed by the compassion I felt from Quan Yin. She judged me as being neither ignorant nor wise.

“Stories are of immense importance to the greater human story,” she said. “You must continue to tell the story. It is a way of teaching and learning.” Quan Yin looked deeply at me, smiled, and then became a ball of light and moved away. I watched her recede from my sight, the depth of my gratitude for our encounter almost overwhelming . . .

From “The Found Child” by Diana Rankin

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