In the end, all that matters is the way we have
treated ourselves and taken care of those into whose life we
pass. We obtain things to make our lives easier and more
comfortable, to open to knowledge and to be aware of beauty. Yet
it is the love that matters.
We love to allow the generosity of heart to fill us
and to move through us to the other and on to a larger,
continuous circle. In turn, we vibrate with the love that
radiates back from this circle that we ourselves have lit with
the Light of Love.
Circles vibrate and attract within their vibrating
level, which in turn intermingles with others who are in
themselves a circle of vibration. This interchange strengthens
each vibratory circle, thus reverberating and echoing along the
arches until reaching the center of the circle where the human
The stronger the original signal, the stronger the
vibration of the circle's signal. The human controls the signal
through genuine emotion. If the life force is weak through each
emotion of the heart, the signal will be weak and not attract
other circles of emotion. That person will eventually tire of
feeding itself and burn out. A life force cannot feed itself in a
sustained way without energy from another source.
There are two sources of feeding yourself, and both
are needed at this stage of evolution. The first of course is the
Prime Source, or what you call God. But this source is often
misunderstood. This is part of the life source of each being and
what we feed one another as well as ourselves.
This Life Force runs through all that is and all
that is, is constantly feeding you as you are feeding all. The
strongest force in the form of influencing another is the force
from the same species. Thus, a tree has a stronger influence on a
tree than does a rabbit on a tree. This can also be broken into
subspecies and still be true, so it can be said that an oak has a
greater influence on an oak than on a maple or pine.
Where humans are concerned, your influence on one another
is greater than is the oak's influence on you. This is not to say
that the oak or rabbit or stone or dog does not influence you.
They certainly do just as you influence them. It is to say,
however, the greatest influence on you comes from other humans.
This said, you can then understand why your emotions
play such a pivotal role in attraction of the influences you want
around you. At the simplest level, like attracts like. The
explanation of this, we have already given, but the question is
always raised that if this is so, why is there suffering?
Again, we must look at the bigger picture. Each human is at the
center of each circle. The vibration of the circle changes and is
strengthened by the emotion and its intensity. The greater love, the
higher the vibratory frequency, and the lighter and brighter the
circle. Here, recognize that like attracts like, so the
frequencies of vibration call out and pull into themselves their
If a person is emitting a genuine emotion of
compassion, the vibratory frequency of compassion will seek out
others who are at the same time emitting this same frequency, The
same is true of anger, although that is a denser emotion and
travels at a slower pace. The danger of the slower, heavier
emotions is that they do not move away easily but tend to get
stuck in the circles of attraction.
The lighter frequencies do not get stuck as they
move at a lighter and greater pace, which allows them to enlarge
at a much faster rate. Thus joy reaches out from its center to re-energize
itself easier and faster than does a denser, genuine emotion.
If we have been caught in a denser emotion, we
suffer. This must be looked at along the entire soul path, not
just one life, although it is only one life that humans
experience at a time. If-and once-able to comprehend their
God-self, they will no longer suffer, because they will give up
ownership and allow life to flow for the experience.
Suffering comes through ownership of something and
its loss. Another way of expressing this is to say our suffering
as humans is in direct proportion to our attachments and
expectation of that which we believe should be.
You believe your body should be strong and healthy.
This is your expectation. You are attached to your body's
strength and health. Loss of this causes suffering. The same is
true when someone you say you love moves to a different plane of
existence. I say someone you say you love because love does not
bind or judge, which we do both with our expectations and
Loving fully does not mean holding onto or binding
the other with your expectations. Loving fully means just
that-loving. In loving fully, there is no suffering. There is